Hai friends i was in love with a person sure to marry only after settling in life but....?

I have a similar problem like yours just that i haven't married him. You know what i think is when the guy has moved on you should also move on.You should not waste more of your time after a guy who chose his family over you when the real test came. You deserve a lot better. You are lucky to have your parents by your side even after doing so much. You gave your best to your relationship but when the other person is not giving a bit also then whats the use? You need at least two ends to join something ryt? You dont have one end with you then why wasting time.. It will be hard but you can overcome it. Respect your father's feelings and go with him. :-)